Chapter 2
The Preparations
Christmas was usually a long time preparation
in those days. It is a preparation for an event but one could describe it as
“preparations” because of so much that is involved. The preparation usually
starts two or three months to Christmas. Parents begin to save money for
clothes, shoes, food and “happy Christmas” money.
The “happy Christmas” money is given to
children as part of Christmas celebration when they wish someone happy
Christmas. Some men prepare to give happy Christmas money by going o the bank
and changing their money into new and lower notes. It seems some Muslims men also
prepare the happy christmas money. This is because as children we use to wish
them happy Christmas and they will give us some money.
The tradition is when someone wishes you a
happy Christmas by saying, “Happy Christmas” you will give him something
usually some loose change or say, “Same to you.” As children we did not like
same to you. We wanted a gift preferably some money.
Parents who prepare early will buy clothes
for their children and hide them in their boxes. One will not like his
Christian friends to know what his Christmas clothes looked like. It is however
interesting to know that we did not mind showing our Muslims friend our
Christmas clothes. We will secretly take it to them and usually the comment is,
“It is nice.”
One will however guard it as a secret to his
Christian friends. This is done in order to surprise them on Christmas day. If
your younger one makes the mistake of telling your Christian friends your type
of Christmas clothes you will punish him. If he goes beyond that and shows them
the clothes before the D day that will really be serious. The only thing you
will desire at this point is to have another one.
Many children do not have Christmas clothes
until the actual day of Christmas. Their parents will be struggling to raise
the money. It will be a game of waiting and hoping for the children. One’s
mother will usually take him to the market to buy his shoes. In those days most
families where poor. This true to the point that Christmas clothes were the
only new clothes that many parents can afford to buy for their children
annually. This is one of the reasons why the Christmas clothes were special.
This
also means that in many instances apart from the Christmas clothes no one will
buy a new cloth for you again until another Christmas. Occasionally your mother
will buy second hand cloths call “gonjo” for you. Some very poor parents will
go to the market and select a very good gonjo and iron it for their children
for Christmas. In most cases however families in those days go to the tailors
for Christmas clothes. One of the worse things that can happen to one is for
his friends to know that his dress is gonjo. They will ridicule him and he will
feel belittled.
It is usually a busy time for the Tailors.
All tailors whether Christian or Muslim will be busy in the season. Since my family
believes in going to the Tailors for our Christmas clothes; Most of the time I
wore tailor sewn clothes on Christmas rather than already made. My brothers and
I always have the same type of clothe.
In those days we use our mothers a common
question over and over again as the chrisstmas draws near. This question is,
“Mummy when are we going to the Tailors for measurement?” This is important
because the measurement gives one hope that he will be having Christmas
clothes. As long as you have not been taken to the tailor you are not yet sure
that you will have Christmas clothes. We
use to ask our friends, “Have you been taken to the Tailor for measurement?” If
the answer is yes we will celebrate with them. If the answer is no we will feel
sorry for them and encourage them by saying, “We believe they will soon take
you to the Tailor go and ask your mother.”
One of the highlight of Christmas in those
days was the counting of days. We were always counting the days to Christmas.
This is particularly done in the so call “ember” months. The ember months are
those months that end with e-m-b-e-r.
If one is young and can’t count he will ask
his older ones to tell him when it will be Christmas. The most exciting day is
when one is told that, “If we sleep and wake up two times it will be Christmas.”
There were some children who will keep stones and be removing them one by one
in order to count the days of Christmas.
For example if they keep thirty stones each
day they will remove one and count the reminder. This is the way they will know
how many days are left. When you remove one stone from thirty, twenty nine will
be left. The subtraction and counting will continue until the day of Christmas.
The day it remains two stones one know that it is a day to Christmas Eve that
is two days to Christmas. Another way is to tell one that if we sleep and wake
twice it will be Christmas.
Many men do not bother themselves with
Christmas clothes. This is not the case with women and children. It was a must
for them in those days. I remember one Mrs Alfa who had a fight with her
husband. This was because he did not buy Christmas clothes for her.
We heard the husband saying “Me ya sa baki yi
dahuwa ba?” This Hausa words when translate in English means, “Why did you not
cook?” Her answer was, “Domin baka saya
mani kaya Christmas ba?” The translation in English is, “Because you did not
buy Christmas clothes for me.” He slapped her and a quarrel insure.
Interestingly as children we were supporting the wife secretly in our heart. We
could not understand how a man will not buy Christmas clothes for his wife.
It was also common for children whose parent
could not afford to buy Christmas clothes for them to cry. There were some that
will refuse to got to church on that day.
Tailors palava
was common in those days. Our tailor who was a Kurama man a “play mate” to us has
never failed us. The fact that we stayed in the same compound also contributed
to this. It was however, common for tailors to collect a lot of clothes for
sewing beyond their capacity. This is done in a bit to make a lot of money in
the season. The end result will be their inability to bit the day of collection
that they themselves have assigned to people. They usually run and hide on
Christmas day or spent the day sewing clothes.
It also seem to me that there were cases of
complains that were not genuine. Looking back now I suspect that some parents
could not afford to buy Christmas clothes for their children. This will now
cause them to hide behind putting the blame on tailors. In this regard some of
“The Tailor could not finish the dresses” generated were false. This is also
palatable to parents because it was easy for children to accept it since such
practice was common.
Many a times the customers also contribute to
this problem. They will not plan or bring their clothes early. They will come
late and insistently plead with the tailors to collect their own clothe whereas
they can see clearly that the Tailor’s hands were full. There were cases of
children who did not have anything new to wear on Christmas day and hear them complain,
“My clothes is with the Tailor.”
Interestingly I had favour with a particular
Bajju woman one Mrs Elisha. She considered me as one of her children as such
she will sew Christmas clothe for me. This is an extra Christmas cloth for me
apart from the one sewn by my parents. In this way I was lucky. I will wear one
on Christmas day and another one on New Year day.
The Christmas day in Zaria was a special day.
All the Christians will go to church. The children, women and in some cases men
will dressed in Christmas dresses. Christmas in Zaria is usually windy and
cold. It is a time when the Hamatan will be blowing hard. This however does not
reduce the excitement or stop the celebration at all.
Children will defile the cold and move about
freely. They will throw “knock out” that is fireworks. The knock out was more
pronounce on the Christmas Eve and the New Year Eve Celebration than on the
actual day of Christmas. Our own
celebration as children will continue from Christmas day to New Year day since
we were on Holidays.
It must also be mentioned that we use to pray
that the National Electricity and Power Authority (NEPA) will not take
electricity so that it will result in black out. You will hear children telling
one another, “Allah ya sa kada NEPA su dauke wuta wannan Christmas!” The
English translation is, “May God make NEPA not to take electricity this
Christmas”. The answer is usually, “Amin.” That is, “Amen.” Electricity has
improved now but it was and is still a major problem in Nigeria.
I was recently told by someone that Nigerians
are the number one users of generating set in the world. One can never be sure
of when electricity will be available. Some have said the real meaning of the
acronym NEPA is Never Expect Power Always.
Therefore in those days when NEPA makes
electricity available there will be a loud shout of “Yeee!” in the whole
community. All our singing and dancing on the Eve and Christmas day will not be
possible without electricity. The provision of electricity by NEPA was
therefore a major prayer point for us as children. I guess it was also true of
the adult since in many cases children say what the adults are thinking.
There wasn’t much problem with water at
Christmas on the order hand. There was tab water in many house. If you do not
have one you can easily fetch from the neigbours. The water board hardly takes
water from the tabs in those days. In any case if they do most of the houses
had wells that one can fall back to. We therefore learn to draw water from the
well early in life. Everyone had his own guga. Guga is a small bucket or container
tired to a long rube that one uses in fetching water from the well.
The table of water was not far therefore one
did not need to dig more than seven or eight feet to get water. I however
remember a well we dug that the channel of water was the same with our toilet
and the water got contaminated.
I particularly remember a certain Christmas
that our father reared Agri-Chickens for Christmas. That particular Christmas
was chicken galloo. We ate and also gave neighbors chicken. However one
particular hen was left.
It grew big and terrorized little children by
collecting their food. As an example if a child is taken tea and bread the hen
will attack the child and collect the bread from him. In most cases the tea
will pour on the ground. We nicked name the hen “Kaza breadi” that is a chicken
that its bread in Hausa. This is because it mostly attacks children when they
are eating bread. The day they slaughter it we all mourn for it.
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